Masturbation is primal, and probably the number one primary form of sexual expression for we humans. It's not just for children, or for those in-between lovers, or for elderly people who end up alone. Masturbation is exploratory, liberating and freedom... symbolized and expressed in the ongoing love affair we each have with ourselves throughout our lifetime!
You would think we could at least celebrate masturbation as the safest sex there is! In the age of AIDS and other STD's, masturbation seems like the safest form of sex anyone could ever have, but making love alone - masturbating - is still society's dirty little secret! How sad!!
This cultural denial of masturbation sustains sexual repression. Sexual repression, I fully believe, is at the heart of most every major human mental and psychological malfunction there is.
From childhood through adulthood, most people feel guilt and shame over masturbation. Deprived of a sexual relationship with ourselves, we humans are much easier to manipulate and more accepting of any status-quo.
I believe masturbation holds the key to reversing sexual repression, especially for women who think they're "frigid" or aren't sure whether they're having orgasms in partnered sex. The same is true for men who are premature ejaculators, or for those men who can't get enough stimulation to have an orgasm from simple fucking.
Masturbation is the best of ways for all of us to learn about sexual response. It's an opportunity for us to explore our bodies and minds for all those sexual secrets we've been told and taught to hide, even from ourselves!!
What better way to learn about pleasure and being sexually creative! You don't have to perform or meet anyone's standards, to satisfy the needs of a partner, or to fear criticism or rejection for failure. Sexual skills are like any other skills; they are not Magically inherited. They have to be learned!! How do you learn them? You MASTURBATE!!
Universal acceptance of masturbation is the next step in civilization's sexual evolution. So girls, leave off your panties, spread your legs as wide as you can, masturbate, and evolve - It's No Thong Thursday!! Kisses...
Khristy
xoxo
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